Vivian美國太太隨手記

A young man will get married in a week,he had some argued with his fiancée ,his father talk to him about 
"The key for a good marriage "!
今天看一部影集，年輕男人在婚禮的前一個星期與他的未婚妻有些爭執，男人的父親跟兒子說如何維持婚姻幸福快樂

Father : You are in the what we call " a no win situation right now.
從現在開始你進入完全沒有"贏"的處境

Son: what ? 什麼？

Father: Yep, you need to do what she needs you to do, you need to say what she needs you to say, but you don't know what to say or right. So the thing is you have to wait for her to tell you what you need to apologize for.
是的你要去做哪些事是她要你做的，你要說哪些話是她要你說的，即使你不知道哪些是該說的或是做對的事，甚至你必須等她告訴你哪些是你該道歉的

Son: But I didn't do anything wrong. 我又沒有做錯什麼


Father: Do you want to know the secret key for a good 
marriage? You have to decide early weather you want to be right or happy, you can't have both.
你想知道一個快樂婚姻的秘密嗎？你必須儘早決定你要堅持你是對的還是你要婚姻快樂，但是你不能同時擁有。

Son : You mean woman always right? This is not make a sense.
你意思說女人（老婆）永遠是對的？這一點也不合理

Father: Well this is always make a sense for a good marriage.
這道理非常合理的在快樂幸福婚姻中